They creep up on you, and attach to your brain like a fishing lure, just hanging out, oblivious to your pain, they could stay forever. You try to make them go away, but the fishing lure embeds itself even deeper in your brain, and the pain becomes more intense.
Way back in the day when I was a Junior Baby Social Worker, sometimes, a therapist would give advice to wear a rubber band on your wrist. When the thought would come and embed itself in your brain, you were supposed to stretch that rubber band, and let it go around your wrist.
Sometimes, the pain made it go away temporarily. But then, it would come back with a vengeance; like Voldemort going after that Potter kid.
Distraction is a good coping skill (used in the short-term) to help get those thoughts out of your head. Eventually, you’ll want to learn more lasting ways to rein in those thoughts. Sometimes, a thought is just a thought, but other times, it’s something that you need to deal with so that it can go away.
By all means, add to this list. Take off the things you wouldn’t do. Take a poll at Walmart and see how other people distract themselves, or ask your friends and family.
You’re not the only one in this big world that worries and has obsessive thoughts and worries. But, you don’t have to suffer with them.
Now, go on, and try some of these things. Remember, what works once, may not work as well another time, so try lots of them.
Wishing you laughter, serenity, and a significant decrease in anxiety
